Okay so I’ll try to keep this as short as possible.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 10 months now. I love her to death, but I’ve noticed she doesn’t really have any friends and has a really hard time making friends. I don’t mean that as an excuse, it’s just something I’ve noticed.

The other day I was at a party and she was there. She was with a bunch of her college friends. They were all having a good time and I was having my own. When I went over to say hi to her she was just chatting to some of her friends and I decided to join in. She was super chill about it, I was having a good time.

The next day we were at a party and she was there too. Now this is where I was REALLY upset. She was sitting at a table with her friends and I decided to talk to her. I asked her how her year was going, and she said just fine, then I asked her how her year was going and she was just chatting with her friends. I asked her if she was going to be attending a party that night, and she said no. I got mad because I wanted to be able to talk to her.

This is where I’m feeling more and more frustrated. I’m not mad that she doesn’t have friends. I’m mad that she can’t even be bothered to make friends. Not that you’re obligated to talk to whoever you’re talking to, but she was just having fun.

I’m not asking for a friendship, I’m asking for a friend. I feel like that’s the only way I will be able to talk to her.

I know this is a minor thing, but I’m so angry about it.